huge setback

My name is Renee, I am 23 and I'm TRYING to start my lap band journey. Ive been making some progress but, not much... it seems like every time is get an inch further something pops up to knock me 3 feet back. Just yesterday i was telling my cousin how excited i am that the date of my first appointment is coming up, but I'm feeling like i shouldn't get my hopes up... as soon as we get home i see a letter on the desk from "an" insurance company... I know that it isn't mine, but the letter is eating away at me, saying "open me! i have very important news for you" so what do i do? i open it... Low and behold, my insurance has changed because the company chose to stop going through humana... GREAT!!!  so now, i have to start from square one... square one where i don't have a surgeon, an appointment, or an idea of where to start (again)....The insurance company is running me back and forth telling me that my surgeon is no longer on the approved list, then they give me a list of numbers to call for new surgeons... NONE OF THEM ARE IN BARIATRICS! WHY! why are they doing this to me... i guess they meant it when they said, anything worth having is worth working hard for... so I'll get back to my grind as of the new year... but man I'm a little discouraged today...